Golf is a social sport. Playing a round of golf with someone can be an excellent way to get to know them. This is particularly useful in business when you need to decide whether you want to establish a business relationship with someone you do not know very well. What better medium to do this than a round of golf where you see your potential client or business associate in a competitive situation. You get to see how they perform under pressure and how they react to both success and disappointment.
You are probably wondering what this has to do with golf etiquette. The goal of good manners in golf is to make sure everyone has a chance to enjoy their game without disruption or distraction from other players. The last thing you want to do in this situation is to be annoying.
Let's review a couple of important golf rules for etiquette and see how this plays out.
First, don't talk during someone else's shot. I know that among some of your close friends it may be okay to joke and wise crack about their swing, but it is best not to make a habit of it. When you are playing a round with business associates or office mates, talking or being otherwise distracting during their shot is considered rude. If you engage in this type of behavior you may find yourself omitted from the short list of golf partners for the next trip to the club.
Next, you need to acknowledge that everyone is entitled to play at their own pace, but you should also be thoughtful of your golf partners as well as other golfers playing on the same course. Take your time for your shot but don't waste a lot of time between shots. Try to figure out your next club choice while your partners are making their shots. Don't wait until it is your turn to begin to think about your next shot.
This same type of awareness also applies to other golfers on the course. If another golf party is coming up behind yours, playing the course more quickly than your group, it is good form to invite them to play through. This prevents them from having to wait for you at each hole throughout the remainder of the course and also eliminates the pressure of them "breathing down your neck" while you make your shots.
Finally, we have to acknowledge that golf is a frustrating game much of the time. For instance, it is easy to become angry when your shot lands in the water hazard for the third time in six holes.
When things are not going your way you need to have the presence of mind to remember that you want to show your golf partners how you deal with setbacks as well as with success. Stay calm and make a self-deprecating joke about your skill if you need to. Just remember that any embarrassment you suffer in that moment will not be as bad as the embarrassment you feel later if you give into your anger and toss all of your clubs into the water hazard.
Stay cool and stay alert to your own actions as well as the actions of those around you and try to make their experience as pleasant as you can. Doing so will ensure the your business-related golf activities will be both useful and enjoyable.